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Sunday, 21 July 2013

...Love...Love...Love...

Everybody wants to be loved, I feel. It is a gesture passed unto one, it makes one feel good about him/ herself, I know it does to me.  It ranges from natural love from parents, siblings – your family, basically, these being people you are family with by virtue of being born of the same blood (clan) and also encompasses people you come to identify as family through circumstances you have shared with them. This love range goes to heights of love that one experiences from friends, prestik/ bostik – as prof. Kobus (Introduction to Management 131 lecturer, UWC) would term the idea of boyfriend/ girlfriend or just about any other person, complete stranger even, acting lovingly (showing humility) towards you.

*See what happens when there's no great presence of LOVE...I mean - people around Angelic just let the poor thing show her not-so-perfected-craft on national television like that. I hope they've learnt their lesson and will never make that mistake ever again - WRONG of great magnitude happens when there's no, in the not-so-musically-satisfying-notes of Angelic, L.O.V.E*

You cannot put a price on love. You could be the richest in the world, but without love – there is a greater chance that you will only be miserable, I feel. And I express this, coming from a point of someone who comes from a very loving family, my mom and siblings (3 bros and little sis’) are very supportive and they are the ones who propel me forward, my pillars of strength. For someone who has experienced love, I feel I would be greatly miserable without my family (representative of love). Maybe for someone who has no idea what love is or someone who wouldn’t say, for sure, they think they have experienced it – maybe they'd feel otherwise. However, some people are found to resort to material things to try and fill the void and that’s their own thing, but does it do the trick or is it just you fooling yourself to try and ease the pain? A trait, love is persistent and very powerful, it prevails over thee most bluntly unbendable things there. Prior to 19 years ago, the Republic of South Africa had laws and policies that had it be anything but republic, but through love, many people endured torture in fight for it to be and people like Steve Biko, Hector Pieterson, and others, sacrificed their lives even. And I live with no noose around my neck of a new constitution that has me and everyone else in the Republic of South Africa free to spread my wings by virtue of BEING, and I am very thankful to every one of them.

  Picture taken from: (http://www.fanpop.com/clubs/love/images/34472451/title/love-photo)

We all love being loved, we all love love. Even the person who may be dubbed ‘thee most evil in the world’ wants to be loved. There are instances of evil that can be attributed to love as the reason behind the act. I am not saying it is right to do bad if it is out of love, evil is wrong – no question about it, but there are bits and pieces of the evil deed that may stem from love. A case of somebody who turns to crime to try and provide for their family falls into this category. I trace it back to love of somebody who goes out of their way to, usually making a complete disregard of the consequences and the people affected – which is very inconsiderate, make it as easy as possible for their beloved. If one could observe the idea of people who have themselves turned into human bombs (suicide bombers), life is of great value and the act of self-bombing could be only out of love – whatever the reason that surfaces, I strongly feel the initial reason is love. Though an evil act may come from a place of love, I think about it and I find the whole idea rather self-serving; the person committing the evil act is acting selfishly towards the persons who wound-up adversely affected out of it all (victims).

Picture taken from: (http://www.animalsneedhelp.com/2008/01/14/how-many-dogs-does-it-take-to-change-a-light-bulb/)

We can learn so much from animals. They are very loving and protective of their offspring and us humans, we dismally fail to do so, yet, like them, we act on instinct – but (even better) ours is coupled with rationale – we should know better. Hence, I feel it is of vital importance and stress WE SHOW LOVE TOWARDS ONE ANOTHER, and genuine love (please people) – otherwise, feel free to go cold on me – I do not like being misled. And I’m down on my knees I’m begging you *singing Ayo's song* - PLEASE, LET’S REFRAIN FROM USING THE WORD ‘HATE’, IN LIEU OF THAT, I SUGGEST WE GO ‘I do not like that thing…’, unless the subject is really that gruesome and deserving of the term, because ‘HATE’ is a very strong word – it could break one.  

Monday, 22 April 2013

MY MOM...THE BEST THING TO EVER HAPPEN TO ME


WHERE DO I BEGIN
I'M LOST FOR WORDS
SHE'S ALL THESE WONDERFUL THINGS...ALL AT ONCE
LOTS I WANT TO SAY
DON'T KNOW HOW TO PUT IT
ONE THING THOUGH...

...SHE'S THE BEST THING TO EVER HAPPEN TO ME

MY MOM IS THE EPITOME OF HEART
SHE LOVES, SHE FORGIVES, SHE CARES, SHE PROTECTS
WITH HER, I ALWAYS FEEL SAFE
WITH HER, I NEED NOT WORRY
WITH HER, I ALWAYS KNOW THAT ALL IS WELL *Hand on the chest - Indian accent*



                                                                       ...
MY MOM IS THE ESSENCE OF MOTHER
SHE NEVER DISAPPOINTS
SHE EMBODIES THE CHARACTERISTICS OF A HUMANE EARTHLING
SHE IS THE KIND OF WOMAN I, hopefully, AM BECOMING
                           - If I haven't, already -

I FEEL: I AM BECAUSE SHE IS 
I FEEL: I OWE IT ALL TO HER
                ...AND...
I KNOW FOR SURE THAT...

...SHE'S THE BEST THING TO EVER HAPPEN TO ME

MY MOM'S SUPER COOL
NOBODY COMPARES
NOBODY COMES CLOSE, NOT EVEN AN INCH
IT IS ALL DONE WITH EASE, FLAIR AND EFFORTLESSLY
SUCH BEAUTY
I FEEL: I AM LUCKY
AND IT IS WITHOUT ANY DOUBT -whatsoever- THAT...

...MY MOM'S THE BEST THING TO EVER HAPPEN TO ME.


                               
                                  INTENTION WITH THE PIECE OF WRITING:

Fellows, let's try and show gratitude to our mothers, fathers, grandparents or just about anybody who has had you be. Those persons that have sacrificed it all and helped us come into being. Let's do it while they're still with us in flesh, let's not take them for granted. Let's show them they have not wasted their time and efforts all these years they stood by us...QUICK - QUICK NOW, THE CLOCK IS TICKING! YOU WOULDN'T WANT TO LIVE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE IN MISERY, if it may happen-for some reason they wound-up not alive anymore and you have never said 'thank you', FOR SOMETHING SO EASY AS A SIMPLE "THANK YOU MAMA *Sarafina's voice*" - AM I RIGHT?! - AHSOME!



Thursday, 20 September 2012

To study or not to study?

Oh My Gosh! It's  my first day, with my first up and running blog, and I am super EXCITED! Now I can share with people of the world howzit going with me..........I'm enjoying this already.........where do I start? *thinking mode*

Well....I should be studying at this point, why? Well - because I am writing Friday afternoon, but, I am very hopeful people.....ja - one other thing with me I'm a very optimistic somebody *got it from my sister* Even in THE most hectic times, I know good is coming my way. it's easy people, you just sit there on the edge of your seat while holding thumbs and praying it all goes as wished.

Back to the I, that ought to be studying hard, sweating my everything out, of which I don't get to do that much, well because I don't really have time in hands...I cannot not check my Facebook page - OK ! My laptop is still everything to me, even though it's quite depriciated now




...and there's free internet connection at UWC (University of the Western Cape), and so I's got to cash in on once-in-a-lifetime-opportunities. And, and...I just like surfing the 'net, I am not addicted to this thing, I just come back from lectures @ about 15hoo sometimes and Youtube and Facebook a little, up to early morning hours - 02h00 to 05h00, just 'til then OK! 

I should probably deactivate my 'internet life' and do things old-fashioned way. So, from now on I'm going to logoff of this site and shut every other thing, I'm going to read books only and no 'net surfing anymore.....Who am I kidding here, internet has just made pretty much everything easier. No waiting in lines, no struggling through a step, it's all at the click of the mouse.  

It's nice how the internet provides one with all this info. but still you've got to read it all and make sense of it. So maybe I should do so with my books as well and study on *coming to her senses*...but it's just tedious, I cannot concentrate that long. I know what I'll do, wait for it...CRAM. I know it always works for me, Gosh! What do I do?

I cannot afford to fail, but I also don't know how to study. I don't like notes, give me numbers , then we're talking - I enjoy doing calculations, I'm very good, but I like figures...which is why I am doing studies in line with the career I want to pursue, CHARTERED ACCOUNTANCY. I cannot wait to become one, but I's got to figure a strategy of some sort to get me mastering and understanding those notes - I've got a looooooooooooooong way to go!

I AM because WE ARE, so I am definitely going to need your guys' suggestions and strategies to assist the I study on, help me out with how I could master my notes. Friday is soon guys *hint-hint*. You can, please, leave your comments...I owe you one *wink-win

Yours in great NEED and DESPERATION
Zama

                                                                    SOON-SOON...